Moxie on Monday
Moxie on Monday: Live For Now
This moment matters more than you think
By Catherine Grace O’Connell March 24, 2025

What if today was your last day on Earth?
The last time you’ll see a sunset.
The last time you’ll hug a loved one.
The last walk on a beautiful beach.
The last nap. The last dance.
Would you see life differently? Would you savor every moment? Would you finally say the words you’ve been holding back, take the risk you’ve been afraid to take, or let go of the grudges you’ve been carrying?
Life is all about perspective.
Think back to when you were a child. Everything felt magical — the first snowfall, the smell of cookies in the oven, the thrill of a new adventure. Every little thing was big. Every moment felt brand new.
Then, somewhere along the way, the magic began to fade. We stopped noticing. We rushed through our days, eyes glued to screens, lost in to-do lists, drowning in distractions. The little things became insignificant. Even the big things lost their sparkle.
But here’s the truth: the magic never left. We just stopped seeing it.
If today were your last day, everything would matter again. The way the sunlight dances through the trees. The laughter of a friend. The warmth of your pup curled up next to you. You’d savor every single breath.
So why not live that way now?
The biggest regrets at the end of life aren’t what people did—it’s what they didn’t do. The love they didn’t express. The chances they didn’t take. The adventures they kept postponing.
Here’s how to shift your perspective today:
1. Pause and Notice
Slow down. Breathe. Look around. Feel the breeze on your skin. Hear the sounds around you. If this was the last time you’d get to experience this exact moment, how would you hold it?
2. Say What Needs to Be Said
Love someone? Tell them. Grateful for someone? Show them. Don’t wait until it’s too late.
3. Do the Thing You Keep Putting Off
Book the trip. Start the project. Sign up for the dance class. Stop waiting — the time is now.
4. Let Go of What No Longer Serves You
Resentment, fear, and self-doubt weigh you down. If today was your last day, would you waste it clinging to old wounds? Forgive. Release. Move forward.
5. Find the Magic and Wonder
See the world through the eyes of a child. Be in awe. Watch the sunset with wonder. Feel the grass beneath your feet. Live like everything is a miracle — because it is.
At the end of your life, you won’t remember the emails, the meetings, the material stuff, or the things you checked off your to-do list. You’ll remember the love, the laughter, and the moments that took your breath away.
So, what if today was your last day?
Live like it is.
Because one day, it will be.
About Moxie on Monday
Catherine Grace O’Connell is chief executive cat-alyst of her female-focused digital media agency MODLife Media and an expert on becoming ageless in mind, body, and spirit. She has more than 30 years of study and experience in natural wellness, mindfulness, meditation and fitness. She is also the founder of Ageless In Seattle, a heart-centered community for women of all ages. You can follow her on her website CatherineGraceO, Instagram @catherinegraceo, and Tiktok @catherinegraceo
